Comments on: When it’s cycle of verbal,emotional,physical abuse and some ppl dont follow in their abuser steps.? http://www.abusersanon.com/physical-abusers/when-its-cycle-of-verbalemotionalphysical-abuse-and-some-ppl-dont-follow-in-their-abuser-steps Sat, 21 Jan 2012 07:57:42 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 By: hayha700 http://www.abusersanon.com/physical-abusers/when-its-cycle-of-verbalemotionalphysical-abuse-and-some-ppl-dont-follow-in-their-abuser-steps/comment-page-1#comment-5542 hayha700 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 08:27:59 +0000 http://www.abusersanon.com/physical-abusers/when-its-cycle-of-verbalemotionalphysical-abuse-and-some-ppl-dont-follow-in-their-abuser-steps#comment-5542 generally people accept as normal the things they are raised with, and you don't start a cycle of abuse because you think its the wrong thing to do. often abusers are deeply in denial that they have a problem. if they admit there is a problem then they have to accept the rage against the person that abused them, and the guilt of abusing the next person in the chain. regarding change: breaking any cycle - even a bad one - can feel bad as well as good. some people feel guilty, or even start to miss the comfort of a familiar cycle.<br><b>References : </b><br> generally people accept as normal the things they are raised with, and you don’t start a cycle of abuse because you think its the wrong thing to do. often abusers are deeply in denial that they have a problem. if they admit there is a problem then they have to accept the rage against the person that abused them, and the guilt of abusing the next person in the chain.

regarding change:
breaking any cycle – even a bad one – can feel bad as well as good. some people feel guilty, or even start to miss the comfort of a familiar cycle.
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