When it’s cycle of verbal,emotional,physical abuse and some ppl dont follow in their abuser steps.?
you have some that do, how do they feel now that they are doing the same thing they said they wouldn’t do. I also would like to know how does the one feels that started the cycle of abuse, do they sit back and say look what I did and are proud of themselves or do they feel guilty. say for example it’s the grandmother, mother, and granddaughter they all are abuser How do they feel about one another?
generally people accept as normal the things they are raised with, and you don’t start a cycle of abuse because you think its the wrong thing to do. often abusers are deeply in denial that they have a problem. if they admit there is a problem then they have to accept the rage against the person that abused them, and the guilt of abusing the next person in the chain.
regarding change:
breaking any cycle – even a bad one – can feel bad as well as good. some people feel guilty, or even start to miss the comfort of a familiar cycle.
November 28th, 2009 at 3:27 am
generally people accept as normal the things they are raised with, and you don’t start a cycle of abuse because you think its the wrong thing to do. often abusers are deeply in denial that they have a problem. if they admit there is a problem then they have to accept the rage against the person that abused them, and the guilt of abusing the next person in the chain.
regarding change:
breaking any cycle – even a bad one – can feel bad as well as good. some people feel guilty, or even start to miss the comfort of a familiar cycle.
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