Emotional abusers, are they aware of what they are doing wrong?
My ex emotionally abused me, however he always managed to manipulate the situation to make me feel as though it was my fault. I was wondering however, did he actually know that he was the one at fault in many situations? Or was he totally unaware?
Dear Emotionally Abused,
Welcome to the land of major mind games and head f—–g and they know what they do but will never ever take responsibility and make you the crazy one so they never have to take responsibility. Emotional abuse is what some people use to control others and force them to do what they want them to do…its very dangerous and destructive trap to get caught up in as and I strongly urge you to research and read as much as you can on the subject of emotional abuse and surviving emotional abuse. They don’t have an anger problem, the have a control problem and that’s is the way they were raised and they think that’s its normal and okay.
How much are you willing to put up with….you do not need to accommodate this behavior for it is one of the worst and most destructive situations which leaves no scars and hides behind closed doors. No matter what you do and how hard you try it will never be good enough….he has the problem not you, Your problem is like most women we are conditioned to accommodate men, its just a matter of how much you are prepared to put up with as it doesn’t get better unless you change your behavior. THey are extremely manipulative cunning sociapathic and narcissistic in their emotional conduct and expression….don’t get sucked in by the smooth talk and charm as beneath the mask this is what it is and it wont get better you must and there are many websites and books that will help you see the light and just as many therapists ready to help.
Hope that gives you a start
Kindest Regards
Miss Kris
January 21st, 2010 at 1:19 pm
they knew , and didn’t care
they are shallow and guilt free
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January 21st, 2010 at 2:05 pm
If you are emotionally abusing someone, you are pretty much always aware unless you have some form of mental disorder.
Most people that do this are manipulative evil people and not worth the time that you put into them, they will never change and will always emotionally abuse you for their own sick enjoyment.
Do yourself a favour and cut them out of your life for good and don’t listen to what they say to try sucker you back in because generally it is them being manipulative yet again
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Best answer me please.
You can always do better than an abuser so don’t leave yourself on that platform, go and get a good one there are plenty in the world
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January 21st, 2010 at 2:11 pm
Dear Emotionally Abused,
Welcome to the land of major mind games and head f—–g and they know what they do but will never ever take responsibility and make you the crazy one so they never have to take responsibility. Emotional abuse is what some people use to control others and force them to do what they want them to do…its very dangerous and destructive trap to get caught up in as and I strongly urge you to research and read as much as you can on the subject of emotional abuse and surviving emotional abuse. They don’t have an anger problem, the have a control problem and that’s is the way they were raised and they think that’s its normal and okay.
How much are you willing to put up with….you do not need to accommodate this behavior for it is one of the worst and most destructive situations which leaves no scars and hides behind closed doors. No matter what you do and how hard you try it will never be good enough….he has the problem not you, Your problem is like most women we are conditioned to accommodate men, its just a matter of how much you are prepared to put up with as it doesn’t get better unless you change your behavior. THey are extremely manipulative cunning sociapathic and narcissistic in their emotional conduct and expression….don’t get sucked in by the smooth talk and charm as beneath the mask this is what it is and it wont get better you must and there are many websites and books that will help you see the light and just as many therapists ready to help.
Hope that gives you a start
Kindest Regards
Miss Kris
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January 21st, 2010 at 2:50 pm
Some people are aware while others are righteous to the end.
Two situations:
My father is paranoid schizophrenic and also a sadist. Literally. He gets his pleasure from torturing women and children. He doesn’t believe he is wrong and if he did he wouldn’t care. He is evil.
Me. After coming out of a seriously emotionally abusive relationship I deliberately chose someone less strong than myself. Someone who loved me when I did not love them. I treated them as I was treated in my previous relationship. After about a year I realized that I needed to remove myself from that person’s life and insisted they leave. Immediately. I never tried to contact them again.
Knowing that I have this in me I have lived without relationships since. I will never do to another person what I did to them.
I can never right that wrong though. The best I can do is not do anything like it again.
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