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do abusers ever end it with their partner/victim?

January 18, 2010 - 2:40 am 6 Comments

Do emotional or psychological abusers ever end the relationship with their partner? Or do they just play mind games with you til you finally leave? My friends boyfriend is abusive to her. Not physically. When they fight, he says that he wants nothing to do with her and that he doesnt want to be together anymore. But at the end of the arguement, she asked him if he really didnt want to be with her and that she’ll leave him alone but he didnt say anything except that he needs time. Will an abuser ever end the relationship with their partner?

yes an abuser does sometimes leave the person they abused when they can’t win anymore and when they find someone else they can control.

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6 Responses to “do abusers ever end it with their partner/victim?”

  1. ouragon Says:
    January 18th, 2010 at 8:22 am

    Their goal is to control. The threats are part of it. They don’t leave.

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    5 yrs w/ an abuser

  2. LONG" D " Says:
    January 18th, 2010 at 8:57 am

    You have to give it up !!

    Dont look back !!!
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  3. yuppersmamaof5 Says:
    January 18th, 2010 at 9:18 am

    It is a part of there "Game" it is a Sick game!
    Abusers will get worse
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  4. Shαnnδn Says:
    January 18th, 2010 at 9:36 am

    JFC.
    That’s not an "abuser".
    That’s a young couple fighting.

    Yes, both of them will eventually grow-up and start to "fight fair" if they both work on it.
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  5. Amanda Says:
    January 18th, 2010 at 10:20 am

    my ex was abusive to me — physically..mentally and even religously (if you can believe there’s one.. he would say"hmm. God wouldnt want you to do that".) Oddly enough he left me — and our 3 kids.. but you know.. it didnt stop — the physical did .. but the mental abuse went on…but now….I see him for what he is.. and understand his thinking…that he can no longer abuse me in any way. It has no effect on me.. I think he left as a way of saying "i control the situation"… he tried to control the child support — the kids — even making rules in my own house. Him leaving and me standing up to it.. showed him.. you don’t control me.. my world didnt end. And it drives him crazy…
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  6. jude Says:
    January 18th, 2010 at 10:55 am

    yes an abuser does sometimes leave the person they abused when they can’t win anymore and when they find someone else they can control.
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