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no medical issue, just good old spousal abuse. slap marks, bruses and such.abuser is a female victim is male…

seven years.

Amphetamines have many harmful effects for "long-term abuse" but what’s the difference between someone who isn’t prescribed Adderall and someone who takes it to treat ADHD for the rest of his life? Can’t both bodies suffer from the physical effects and risk of damage to the heart, liver, kidney, etc?

In small doses, drugs like aderall and ritalin are not harmful to a healthy person. In a person who has ADHD, small doses of these drugs often give a therapeutic effect on the mind. In a person who doesn’t have ADHD, they may have no effect at all until you start getting into higher dosages or alternative ingestion. That’s where the problem starts. Abusive use of these drugs often leads to taking much higher doses or crushing up and snorting the tablets in order to get a ‘high’. Besides that, amphetamines have a high occurance of addiction in individuals, and without a doctor following the progress of the individual, there’s a strong concern there.

he lives at home with his parents and siblings he is 19 lives in indenhurst ny suffolk county .But i want to know how do i go about his arrest without having my name brought up even if he thinks it me who told. I am no way of being a rat he got me pregnant thinks he can do what eva he wants hes a physical abuser to so i want to get the last laugh any suggestions?

Seems you’re heading into a pattern of stupid shit behavior. The only smart thing to do would be to forget all about him, and start hanging out with people that would be a positive influence on your life.

Also, I’m pretty sure _he_ didn’t get you pregnant. While I haven’t seen a video of the incident, I’m pretty sure you were both involved in that.

This physical education teacher at my high school believed that one of his student was a drug abuser. He had noticed the needle marks on the student’s arms and has been acting erratically in recent weeks. The teacher reported this to the principal, who in turn notified the student’s parents.
It has turned out that the student was a diabetic. The needle marks were from his insulin injections and the erratic behavior was the result in a recent change in his insulin dosage.
The student and his parents sued the teacher and the school for defamation of character.

Is there any way for the teacher to defend himself from the law suit?
This is in New York.

Wouldn’t it be a great world if teachers gave a damn — oh wait this teacher did and they end up getting sued.

I think this is ridiculous and I think the parents should me slapped because if any person in that school should have been kept up to date on the childs medical status it should have been the PE TEACHER! The parents were negligient in not telling the PE teacher that child was diabetic – what if he had an insulin reaction in class? Erratic behavior is an indication there is an issue with the blood sugars and insulin dose – why weren’t the parents concerned about that?

Pathetic — our world sues people who care for their children.

Seriously, if we had a squad for lack of a better word that went around and targeted the really bad criminals and just took them out….gang bangers, rapist, child molesters, murders etc. The punishment for others like robbers would be to take all they possesed, for physical abusers like wife beaters…beat them up and so on and so forth…don’t you feel this would cut down significantly on crime? Just a thought….

Interesting…hell yeah I’d support it…We treat criminals WAY to good today. You can assault numerous people, murder people, rape children, and still be walking around free on the streets. It would be nice if justice were served on a more regular basis.

She is a busy twenty two year old mom with two jobs, school, and her own apartment. The father of her baby is a cliche "deadbeat" dad who is in jail for robbery charges and is due to be getting out soon. He is an abuser (physical/verbal), and has mentioned his intentions of filing for custody of their son as soon as he’s out of jail… What is the proper procedure she needs to follow in order to apply for full custody? (before he does, that’s if he even has a chance with his record!

SHE NEEDS TO GO DOWN TO A COURTHOUSE AND GO TO THE FAMILY LAW AREA, ASK FOR THE APPROPRIATE PAPERS AND ASK IF THERE’S A SCHEDUAL OR PHONE NUMBER TO A PLACE WHERE THEY CAN HELP HER FILL THEM OUT (IF SHE DOESN’T HAVE A LAWYER TO HELP). WHAT I WAS TOLD WHEN I WENT TO COURT AND TRIED TO EXPLAIN MY CASE IS THAT "IT’S RARE TO GET FULL CUSTODY, EVEN DRUG ADDICTS GET UNSUPORVISED VISITATION", STUPID RIGHT.. BUT HEY MAYBE ITS DIFFERENT WHEREVER YOU ALL LIVE. IT’S INTIMIDATING IN COURT AND THE GOOD ONE USUALLY ENDS UP LOOKING BAD. JUST DONT LET NERVES GET THE BEST OF YOUR FRIEND. I ALSO GOT SOME ADVISE FROM AN EX-COP. HIS BABY MAMA WAS FORMALLY IN JAIL, KIDNAPPED THEIR TWO KIDS AND TOOK THEM TO ANOTHER COUNTY. SHE WAS AWARD PRIMARY CUSTODY AND HE HAD TO DRIVE HOURS AWAY EVERY WEEKEND TO GET THEM AND HOURS TO BRING THEM BACK. HE TOLD ME THAT WHEN YOU GET IN THE COURT ROOM TALK A LOT ABOUT WHATS BEST FOR THE CHILD AND NOT ABOUT WHY HE SHOULDNT GET CUSTODY. THAT’S WHERE HE WENT WRONG. ANOTHER IMPORTANT THING IS THAT FULL LEGAL CUSTODY IS NOT THE SAME AS THE FATHER NOT GETTING VISITATION. EVEN IF HE GETS VISITATION, SHE SHOULD REQUEST FULL LEGAL CUSTODY WHERE SHE MAKES ALL DECISIONS REQUIRING LEGAL SITUATIONS SUCH AS PICKING SCHOOLS AND DOCTORS. GOOD LUCK TO YOUR FRIEND AND HER SON. HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL!

if its emotional, physical.

it seems that the abuser glows with happiness and cant hide they’re huge grin after hurting somebody.

you ask " why are you smiling ? "
and the abuser will answer " im not smiling. "

but the abuser is..

have you ever met an abuser ( not sexual abuser )- ?

can you describe they’re personality ?

why ?

Typically, an abuser is or was a victim of abuse. Sometimes the abuser had abusive parents — not necessarily toward their children, but I’ve observed that when parents are abusive and disrespectful toward each other, their children can grow to emulate the behavior. In other instances, when a child is mentally and/or physically abused, he or she will either become withdrawn and full of fear or will become a bully. In the latter, the ‘bully’ will search out vulnerable victims. Many times their ‘victims’ are from homes where they saw their mothers abused and victimized. This sort of behavior and modeling seems to perpetuate itself and there never seems to be a shortage of walking wounded to keep the dysfunctional behavior going. The trick is to recognize these elements young and address the problems early — forewarned is forearmed! It’s a sad state of affairs and no one wins — the abuser is no more satisfied with their life than the abused. I don’t agree about the ‘glow’ thing as far as the abuser seeming to ‘enjoy’ their actions. It’s definitely a sickness to relish hurting another person psychologically or physically. The most important thing to know is that there is no such thing as being abused once — if you choose to continue a relationship with an abuser, you are signing on for a lifetime of sorrow…It is also important to remember here that many times an abuser uses drugs or alcohol and that seems to ’set them off’. While that’s scary enough — It scares me even more when an abuser commits their mayhem while they are stone sober — that’s not to say the alcohol or drugs are an excuse; but I think the mental illness is even more scary when a person can ’snap’ while totally sober!

Can a not physical but mentally abusive person defy all odds and make a complete turn around in their attitudes for the better and stay better with a lot of determination? Is supporting them important?

Only if they want to. It can’t be forced upon them. But if they truly desire it and work at it, then yes they can change. And support is always important.

Can a not physical but mentally abusive person defy all odds and make a complete turn around in their attitudes for the better and stay better with a lot of determination? Is supporting them important?

Only if they want to. It can’t be forced upon them. But if they truly desire it and work at it, then yes they can change. And support is always important.

Can a not physical but mentally abusive person defy all odds and make a complete turn around in their attitudes for the better and stay better with a lot of determination? Is supporting them important?

Only if they want to. It can’t be forced upon them. But if they truly desire it and work at it, then yes they can change. And support is always important.