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No; it is called self defense. Israel has been under rocker attack for 8 years, and it had time to realize that unless Hamas is dismantled, the attacks will not stop.

It is tragic that many Palestinians who are not directly involved in terrorism are suffering as a result of the actions of their leaders. While no one wants to see any noncombatants harmed, it is important to acknowledge that all Palestinians in Gaza bear some responsibility for their current predicament. After all, they voted to empower Hamas in an election in which they knew the organization’s platform called for the destruction of Israel and the use of terrorism to achieve its aims.

The Palestinians in Gaza have done nothing during the last three years to stop Hamas from launching rockets into Israel. At any time the people could have said, "Enough! We do not support terror." Instead of allowing rocket crews to fire Qassams from their houses, yards, or neighborhoods, the people could have said, "Stop! I will not allow you to make us a target. I will now allow you to use my family as a shield."

For the last three years, the Palestinians of Gaza have said, in effect, "We don’t mind if Israelis are murdered by Hamas rockets, but the world should support us."

During World War II, the German people were not spared suffering from the Allied invasion because they were noncombatants or because some could claim they were not Nazis and did not support Hitler. All the German people were held to account for their failure to stop their leaders from carrying out their aggression and genocidal policies.

The Palestinians now are also being held to account. What is different, however, is that unlike the Allies in World War II, Israel is doing everything possible to avoid hurting Palestinian noncombatants despite their culpability. Even now the Palestinians have the power to stop the war by demanding that Hamas cease firing rockets. Alas, they refuse to take the one step within their power to ease their suffering.

Abused women won’t leave, or go back to the abuser time and time again. Abused children want to go home to their abusive parents. What is the reason for this?

The abuser has worn down their self-confidence so much, that they believe they are responsible for the abuse. They think it’s their fault, that the abuser really didn’t mean it, and if they just try again, things will be better. The thing is, it rarely gets better…

why do the abusers do it? what reasons would they have … like abuse they faced as a child, desire, etc…

i need good points for an ap psych/leadership presentation.
please list as many as possible!

victims usually end up victimizing. I personally beleive that it has a lot to do with abusive demonic spirits flocking to sickened abused people and passed on to the next victim and the chain cant stop unless you break that curse in your life by calling on God himself to fix you…. If a person doesnt get delivered from that abuse, they are very capable of abusing others without even thinking that what they do is wrong…. A good book on this subject is called "The door of Hope"…

Abused women won’t leave, or go back to the abuser time and time again. Abused children want to go home to their abusive parents. What is the reason for this?

The abuser has worn down their self-confidence so much, that they believe they are responsible for the abuse. They think it’s their fault, that the abuser really didn’t mean it, and if they just try again, things will be better. The thing is, it rarely gets better…

If "like attracts like," does that mean these children are abusers, or that they asked the universe for abuse, or ….?

Does the Law not apply to those who cannot control their thoughts?
Since when does the Law of Attraction discriminate? Isn’t energy energy? Regardless of whether it is a child or adult?

Instead of asking did the children, children’s energy, or children’s thoughts BRING ON the abuse, I tend to look at it as the abuse was brought on by the negative energy exercised by the abuser. The children were, for all intents and purposes, innocent.

If a three year old was abused by her non bio- dad (signed a birth cert) since she was an infant still be allowed to visit the abusers dad who thinks he’s the real grandfather, even though the non bio grand dad believes his son did not do it, just because the three year old misses her popee, even though the same popee has grandsons whom he could care less if he sees Blood ones, and if the dad is out fishing for uncertain days or is this too risky if it is still in court and should the abuser after counciling for one year be able to see abused child ever again? please respond honestly!

no the toddler is little and cant make the correct decicions by now.. . what if the abuser is there she might get abused again… take care of her and dont let no one touch her thats really sad i cant believe how there is so many nasty perverted ppl in this world!

like do they feel bad after a while or does their anger continue?

well, after verbally abusing someone, they could feel some sort of discomfort because of the fact that they just hurt um1s feelings,
but they could also feel relieved because yelling is also a way of releasing your anger…
so they probably no longer feel angry afterwards

I obviously don’t expect a full answer, just opinions.

whether or not eh abused becomes the abuser is purely by matter of choice. the abuser usuallyb ecomes abused due to learned habit, or to regain control that was lost.

I obviously don’t expect a full answer, just opinions.

whether or not eh abused becomes the abuser is purely by matter of choice. the abuser usuallyb ecomes abused due to learned habit, or to regain control that was lost.

This is according to Lundy Bancroft, a leading authority on abusive men.

Yes,I know of this happening with someone.They have to lay the blame somewhere so they blame their wives.