do abusers kill their victims and why? domestic violence?

January 14, 2010 - 9:37 am 5 Comments

i am being abused by someone, verbally and physically. they also control me. i am a young woman in my 20s. what are the chances of an abuser murdering someone and why do they do it. will my abuser kill me? i am worried . but how worried should i be?
what makes them kill people and what are the statistics. i got beaten very hard with objects by this person
also why do abusers abuse people. my abuser always torments me and makes sure im not feeling well and that im sad and in danger,. they make sure to put me in danger. they laugh at me

what do they get out of this, whats their purpose?

First thing you need to do. Is get away from that person asap. You don’t want to risk ending up dead because that person bet you till death. I was in a Domestic Violence relationship. He would get very aggressive when I would tell him I was going to leave him and he would say if I leave him he was going to kill me. He did not care. Once he was on a drug mode and he pointed a gun to my head. I was very scared and as soon as he was doing something I ran risking my life he was going to kill me. I called the cops and got him arrested. I stood away from him but he kept making me week and asking me to go back. He never changed. One day he tried to hit me and I fought back. I showed him I was not afraid and to make a long story short, I divorced him 2 yrs 1/2 ago and I have a restraining order on him now that I have my life together he is trying to mess with me. Those people would not change. If he did not change in 1 month then he will never change I am adding a web for you to report domestic Violence because most people don’t admit they are going through it. But you have to think for yourself and talk to a relative or a close friend and ask for help because you really need it.

5 Responses to “do abusers kill their victims and why? domestic violence?”

  1. Alexandrite Says:

    no only when you try to leave
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  2. Conway Twitty Says:

    slap a hoe up!

    toss dollas at dey feet
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  3. John Says:

    no i believe that abusers are the way they are for control. they may hang the threat of killing only to remain in control. the only way they would kill their victim is by hurting them beyond repair.also the way to get out of said abusive relationship is through family friends, or if necessary the police. i hope your ok
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  4. Ethan Says:

    Well usually people who abuse others will have been abused around their childhood/ been around it.
    I have no idea about him killing you and all. I say you just stay away from him
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  5. Jon C Says:

    Don’t take that. You don’t deserve that, so find a friend to stay with and leave. Even tho, chances are they won’t kill you (it would be a stupid move because they would face murder charges) but there’s NO reason to put up with that crap. Just leave.
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