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I think the song "way down the line" by offspring is a perfect song that describes the patterns of abuse.

Nothing changes cause it’s all the same
The world you get’s the one you give away
It all just happens again
Way down the line
There is a chain that’s never broken
You know the story it’s sad but true
An angry man gets drunk and beats his kids
The same old way his drunken father did
What comes around well it goes around

I’ve been thinking about approaching the mother of the boy who sexually abused me. She was my school teacher and she had me baby-sit her son, who molested me. It has been about 10 years. I’ve gone to counseling and have been working on forgiving him. Do I dare contact her? What should I say to her?
Okay, since people are asking, I was older, but really small & only a few years older. And NO I couldn’t stop him, do you seriously think I could sit there and LET him do that, he was a BIG kid!

im confused, if you were babysitting the child, was he old enough to know what he was doing, and if he was, was there nothing you could do to stop him.

anyways, just pull her aside and explain what happened and make sure she understands the severity.